Onyi Love on Cuffing Season

This is The G Podcast with Tommy B, Tonya Bee, Episode 147

Tommy B, Tonya Bee, And Special Guests Onyi Love discuss topics of the week ending September 25, 2022.

Onyi discusses

1) Awareness is the golden key

• Cuffing season definition: time of year when the weather starts to turn cooler and people start seeking relationships to get them through those upcoming long, chilly nights. 

• October 1 - until Valentines Day, some say late fall or early winter until the weather starts to thaw in the spring.

• The thought process? "During the cold winter months, people are less motivated to leave the warmth and comfort of their homes and meet others for social gatherings,Instead, people would rather find one person to spend their time with at home.

• Know where you are, who you’re with, and what you are doing. 

• Are you tapping into the collective consciousness cuffing season, and does all of it resonate with you?

• Survival, stave off loneliness/emptiness/

• Are the people you are encountering during this season playing this game or operating from these energies?

• Are you engaging because you truly want to engage? Or are you engaging to soothe anxiety and avoid looking at yourself. 

2) Know yourself and your preferences

• Connected to point number 1 is 

3) Honesty is the best policy

• Be honest with yourself about what you are doing. 

• Be honest with the people you are engaging with about what you’re dong. 

• Be honest about what you are seeing and picking up on

• Are you just cuffing and only interested in something short term? Are you creating space for something more long term? Are you unsure or just open to exploring with not set destination?

4) Cuff you first. Love you first

5) Hold hands with your joy

Autumn is at once symbolic of plenty, ripening, harvest, and abundance; and, at the same time, a symbol of decay, decline, old age, and even death, with associations of things being past their prime.